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The Truth About Affirmations

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Although often discussed, there is actually very little research that has been done on the structure of self-talk and how it can motivate us…until now.

Published in the April 2010 issue of Psychological Science journal, Professor Dolores Albarracin and her team sought to find out if asking yourself (introspective talk) a question about your potential behavior would increase or decrease the likelihood of that behavior?

In simpler terms, what would work better?

  1. A basic affirmation like: “I will (be able to solve the task).”
  2. Or to frame it as a question: “Will I (be able to solve the task)?”

Before reading on, which do you think worked better?

Affirmations versus Questions – Experiment One

In the first test of two tests, 50 participants were asked to solve a series of anagram puzzles (rearranging letters within words to form new words, like when/hewn).

Before they began the puzzles, researchers directed some of the participants to tell themselves, “I will solve the anagram,” while others were told to ask themselves “Will I solve the anagram?” They were told to think of either the question or the statement for one full minute before beginning the puzzles.

The graph below shows how many anagrams were correctly answered in relation to the two different phrases, “Will I?” and “I will.”

As you can see, the non-affirmation (framed as a question) out-performed the traditional affirmation.

In fact, it increases performance by over 85%…

Quick note: there was no control group (those who did not say any sort of affirmation to themselves before beginning the task). I have no idea why they did not have a control group.

The main point is that the question group outperformed the affirmation group by over 85%.

Writing Affirmations – Experiment Two

In In the beginning of a second experiment, researchers did not tell the participants that they were going to solve a puzzle or perform any task.

This group was split into 4 smaller groups, and simply asked to write down either “Will I?” or “I Will” or “I” or “Will” on a piece of paper as many times as they could in one minute. (The researchers had told them that they were involved in a hand-writing analysis experiment).

After this was completed, without any warning, the 50 participants were then given the same anagram puzzle as in the first experiment.

Again, results showed that those who wrote “Will I?” were able to solve more anagrams correctly than those in the “I Will” group.

This test also had a control, to see if the words “I” and “Will” in a pairing or alone would change the results. Using “I” and “Will” alone acted as the control in this experiment.

The results show that not only did the pairing of words impact the test results, but the specific pairing of “Will I?” again outperformed any of the other combinations.

Why Questions Work Better than Affirmations – Intrinsic Motivation

These new findings are counter to the idea that if you tell yourself you can do something, you will be able to do it.

Even as children, we learn to project self-affirmation– just like The Little Engine Who Could story, where the Engine forced itself up a steep hill by chanting “I Think I Can” until he reached the top.

Professor Albarracin’s results suggest that the Little Engine would have had better success if it had asked itself, “Do I think I can?” on his journey instead. (Or, “Can I?” – etc).

According to these researchers, asking yourself a question (instead of forming a positive affirmation) increases your intrinsic, or inner, motivation.

To put it another way, in the form of a question, you are basically challenging yourself to complete a task. The desire to complete a challenge triggers each individual to create his or her own internal motivation.

The structure of self-talk, therefore, in the form of a question, can be enough to motivate you to action, perhaps more so than the idea of telling yourself that you can do something.

The Power of Questions

The findings of this study reveal how the structure of language can be a link between thought and action. It also demonstrates how far we are from knowing the “ultimate” self-improvement tool.

There are literally thousands of affirmation programs, CDs, books, etc… published in the world today that are only half as effective as this new structure. So we have a lot to learn!

On a personal note, for some strange reason, I am enjoying these results. It kind of reinforces the human spirit that a question is more powerful than a command.

I also am interested to see how other verbs, instead of just “will,” may impact intrinsic motivation and behaviors. What do you think?

Sources:
Albarracin, Dolores, and Ibrahim Senay. “Interrogative Self-Talk and Intention: Motivation Goal-Directed Behavior through Introspective Self-Talk: The Role of the Interrogative Form of Simple Future Tense.” Psychological Science. April 2010. Volume 21, Number 4.

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Tags: affirmations, experiments, I think I can, I will, little engine who could, motivation, psychology, questions, research, self-talk, test results, will I
  • Jake Samuels

    No joke, “Will I stop drinking soda’s?” To me this sounds like people simply don’t like to be told what to do!!

  • Sally B.

    I always knew affirmations were a bunch of baloney. This was very interesting and I am going to do a test. “Will I Stop Eating Cheetos?” Sally B

  • mx_121

    OMG Sally, pick something else… not cheetos. What if it works? Well, on the plus side there will be more left on the shelf for me… <grin>

    Seriously, this goes to the base of who we are and what we think day to day, hour by hour. Are we positive or negative? Are we open or closed (to change)? What DO we want anyway? I must admit this is contrary to what I have thought, read, done etc.
    Bob G.

  • Maggie Webber

    And I always thought to ask a question left enough of a window of opportunity to sow a seed of doubt in one's mind…and hence the chance for something not to happen/be/eventuate! How wrong we can be. I wonder should we now call these possiblations instead of affirmations?

  • http://www.shopnewbrochure.com Terry Shackelford

    Very interesting information. It reminds me of asking the “Eight Ball” a question and waiting for the answer to float up.
    I look forward to seeing your next article.
    Terry Shackelford

  • Jeff Jones

    This is contrary to my experience also. While I can see how presenting a challenge may work over making a blanket statement I still think most people have a problem being nearly positive about the desired outcome.

  • http://www.efthomestudy.com Morris Berg

    This article should have been called “The Truth About Non-Affirmations.” This experiment had nothing to do with the practice of positive affirmations as usually presented, the main rule of which is that affirmations should be phrased in the first person, present tense (not future). So why use this “evidence” to knock the practice of affirmations? If the researchers wanted to test if affirmations work, you'd think they'd have used the most commonly taught form – present tense. Questions are worth trying, it seems, but don't pooh-pooh positive, present-tense affirmations based on a study that didn't really study them!

  • Lisaliljeberg

    I have to admit, I have had pretty good success with the “I will” affirmation and am hesitant to try the “will I?” approach! …although I admit I like the idea of a challenge…I think I'll give it a try!
    thanks,
    lisa

  • http://www.thesimpleaffiliatesystem.com Alex

    very interesting and challenging…or is it?

    Question hook into the mind and that's why copywriters use them so much. I think the fact that a question was used rather than a statement made is the crux of it and I look forward to hearing of more studies.

    Thanks

  • Frank De Munter

    Affirmations are like orders, you cannot NOTfollow them. An affirmation leaves you NO CHOICE, so, if you don't succeed, this is perceived as a defeat. This creates a lot pressure and resistance and in the subconscous mind of a lot of people it may wreak a lot of havoc. A question though, to the contrary, leaves you the choice to to “do it” or to “leave it alone”. Now, you are and stay in command. It's all about YOUR choice, and your responsibility (or responsAbility = ability to respond). This is FREEDOM. It takes the pressure off and that is why the brain functions more optimally. Result will be better, of course!

  • Bobby L

    those are good points, I also like questions

  • http://www.hypnosisnetwork.com/blog Michael Lovitch

    Possiblations!! that is pretty funny

  • Duey

    Affirmations need to be repeated present tense many, many times before the subconscious accepts it as real. This experiment proved nothing. The result was obvious. a challenge to the self. or a statement that the subconscious doesn't yet believe. Therefore a fairly obvious result.

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  • http://sylcastille.ws Nsylmar

    I've always had success with the “I will” affirmations, and yes, the goals I did not achieve using the positive approach gave me a feeling of “failure,” but I've always attributed that to “not in God's plan” for me. Let me try the question approach on those goals I have not achieved yet. I'll let you know.

  • Kimbenporat

    These results will change/rearrange an entire system and render a great deal of material less useful. Personally, I get a stomach ache when I hear the “I will” version of self talk coming out of the mouths of coaches and self help books. I figured this was due to a resistance to commands and to force and also a belief that the knowing is knowing is knowing and it is more effective to coax knowing out and/or to mold that which is negative into that which is positive as it makes it's way from the interior/elevated space into our real lives. In other words – by asking we give a little more credit to the upper realms/our higher self and our capacity to remake ourselves through healthy motivation. Hope I didn't confuse anyone. Thank you dearly for this publication.

    KBP

    Israel

  • Orea

    I'm thinking that the question form gives our self doubts less to push against. And maybe it tells the mind, “Get ready, we have work to do!” LOL

  • Pat Sherman

    I wonder if it might not work even better if you ask, “How will I…?” Then the subconscious mind will search for the way. It has the option of answering, “No” if you just ask, “Will I?”

  • http://www.hypnosisnetwork.com/blog Michael Lovitch

    Nice, a lot of charge around affirmations…

  • Effellenn

    I expect the little engine had it right, and that what counts is the absence of negative, plus the ambiguity that promotes engagement.

    Most likely what works is the degree of focus on the task, which is promoted by emphasizing the process, not the outcome.

    Thing about affirmations is that there is room for a “fight back” of doubt, of all the “negative” conditioning one's received, which then need to be contradicted. Whereas a question simply opens the venue, as it were, for free play.

    In my own experience, the effectiveness of affirmations arises largely from applying some method to the negative internal responses to the affirmation, even if the method is only to drown them out with the “louder” affirmation.

  • http://www.businessbuilderbookclub.com Joy Johnson

    . . . and if the question was phrases “How can I” the results probably would have been better still based on other books/studies I've read. It makes your mind go to that solution place that tends to produce the best results.

  • Kcolrat

    I was told recently by a therapist that my use of adult language in the form of affirmations was not reaching my “inner child”. I all the work I put into doing affirmations did not seem to be helping me feel better, feel motivated…it was kind of defeating. Any thoughts?

  • Mlpiper

    I see from Mr. Berg's comments we are on the same wave length. Your project is skewed to start with because it was done by a psychologist and she aready had her own agenda. Anyone who knows anything about affirmations knows you always say and write them in the “first person and present tense!” as though they are already true because your subconscious mind doesn't know fact from fiction. Obviously, she didn't know what she was doing from the very start because she didn't phrase them correctly. Also, she probably didn't read the study, quantifiied by NASA, that you have to say affirmations for 30 straight days or nights for your subconcious mind to beging to make the paridigm shift. If you start with a false premise you can only get a false answer. Talk therapy doesn't work and never will because the psychologists only deal with the symptoms and not the causes which resides in the subconscious and not the conscious mind. It's all pretty simple, they just don't want to admit they don't know what they're doing. You always have to compare apples to apples, not oranges or pecans or etc., etc. This was a totally wasted test and proved absolutely nothing except that the psychology community again wants to attack some other group which is most likely doing some good for humanity.

    Michael Piper

  • Frank

    Or should we say Willizations?

  • http://www.hypnosisnetwork.com/blog Michael Lovitch

    Hi Israel – thanks for the kind words… I totally understand you and tend to agree

  • Mlpiper

    Nsylmar,

    The reason your affirmations have failed is because they were not phrased correctly. They must always be written or said in the “first person” and “present tense” as though they have already come true. Your subconscious mind doesn't understand the difference between fact and fiction. Stating an affirmation in the future tense may get you what you're asking for, but wouldn't you rather have it now than 60 years from now in the future. The other important ingredient is to say them for at least 30 straight days. If you miss one day you have to start over again. It takes 30 days for your subconscious mind to grab hold of your affirmation and begin to make it come true. Also, if you can persevere for the 30 days it lets your subconscious and the universe know that you really want what your asking for. This is also very important. Everything that you have asked for has already shown-up in your life! If you don't like what has shown-up change your thoughts. What you think about all day long is what you have. So, change your thinking. Think what you think about and be honest with yourself, isn't what you're thinking what you have in your life. CHANGE YOUR THOUGHTS, CHANGE YOUR LIFE. Be consistent.

    Be well,

    Michael

  • Jimpiper68

    Interesting, but I like the idea of present tense affirmations. Even the comedy program SNL got it right with using “I'm good enough, I'm smart enough, and doggone it, people like me.” The future tense could be used more about planning or seeing a project through. For what it's worth, my comment is valid. :)

  • http://www.hypnosisnetwork.com/blog Michael Lovitch

    Pretty strong stuff Frank. I like some of the logic, but I think the big point is that there is a lot to learn. One of the issues I have with the self-help industry is how quickly guru types jump on something not proven and sell it like it is the gospel. This just sets the “mis-information” spiral into motion.

  • mike

    I really enjoyed ” the truth about affirmations ” I'm in sales,and I do believe in the power of language but I also believe that you have to know how to frame an affirmation or a question. I just purchased a(POWER LINGUISTICS PROGRAM) from a guy who says he really studied the field of human behaviour , and in the program he talks about affirmations…lol he needs too paraphrase as “CHEAP FLATTERY” my first red flag,came when I read some his mis spelling … oh the price I pay for this “self development.”

  • Mlpiper

    Mr. Lovitch,

    In the future if you are going to put a study online for comments, please put something on worthwhile and that has substance. She doesn't have the slightest clue as how to say or write affirmations. If she did she would aready know they work because she would have what she asked for in her life. I'm not clear as to where you stand on affirmations or what your motives were to present this study of hogwash online. If you want to have comments or debate, please use something that has some meat, so to speak, or substance so there can be some meaningful discourse. I see many of the people that have commented don't know the proper way to phrase an affirmation or use them correctly.

    Do you use them? Are you familiar with how to correctly phrase and use them? Or are you just trying to stir-up emotions and get inane comments from those that don't really know. I have to really question what your agenda is at this point. Because if you really do know how to correctly phrase and use affirmations you wouldn't have put such a bogus study online for comments as you would have recognized that Delores doesn' have a clue as to what she is doing. The study was flawed from the inception in her mind. Just because she has a PhD. doesn't mean she is a professional or an expert. If you will do some research you will find many studies have proven the more advanced the degree, the less effective the person. She epitomizes this concept with flying colors.

    I would hope in the future you will post essays or articles worth commenting on. This is my first time on this site and in retrospect should not have wasted my time with such idiotcy. Although, I did post to one of the commentors to help them with their future affirmations, so maybe all is not lost.

    I wish you a great day,

    Michael Piper

  • JuiceBoy123

    Great Article!!

  • Mica

    Myrtle and Charles Filmore who started the Unity Movement over 100 years ago found that statements of “Truth” what may now be called affirmations, are stated in the present tense and not in the future with the use of “will.” The idea is that you are already that way as a statement of now rather than later. The use of will in this study is dubious in most new thought affirmations that I have seen and used.

  • Withers47

    Interesting, though as you suggest, far from conclusive. The things researchers do to waste their grant money. A control group was an obvious omission, and I agree, the use of the future tense verb rather than the present tense may have influenced the results – also the amount of time an affirmation is applied. They need to restructure this experiment so that the results are useful rather than merely water-cooler interesting.

  • Clinton Clay

    About two years ago I studied an energy psychology, BSFF (Be Set Free Fast) in which the developer taught the questioning approach as “afformations”, that is by posing the possibility in the form of a question is disposed to create or form a positive response. I have used the technique with myself and with clients, especially as a part of hypnotic work. I believe in it and am delighted to see the report of recent research.
    Clinton O. Clay, LCSW, CH

  • mike

    MIpiper,take a grammar course!!

  • Patricia

    Thank you for your informative newsletters.
    I have been doing affirmations for a long time with increasing success. However, I confess that about six months ago, when I misplace something I changed my affirmation from, “I have an excellent memory and an excellent recall” to “Where did I put my keys?” I have no idea why I suddenly changed my method……and quickly noticed much faster results! I continue to use the “question” method and now with your newsletter information, I will change all my affirmations to questions and test the results.

  • jlt0wn

    Interesting information. Thanks for sharing it with us. I'm with you – let's try other words to see their impact.

  • Livingvisions

    This is worth checking out. Sometimes affirmations work well. Sometimes there is lots of resistance. I will try this on those things where there's been a lot of resistance. Wow – what if this works more easily than affirmations? I never have like authority much anyway. I can see how this might access that child that rebels against authority becuase utlimatley you know what you are trying to acheive is for your ultimate good and the child really doesn't want to thwart good when given a choice. Thank you. I'll stay open.

  • Charlie

    The study is good as far as it goes, but it could have gone much further.

    As a hypnotist I know that an affirmation, however worded, will not work if it arouses resistance”, such as thoughts like “That's not true”

    At the normal conscious level, a potentially motivating statement arouses less resistance if stated as a question, which is why the study got the result that it did.

    However, if the person is deeply relaxed, the statements that usually get the best results are stated in the “I am” form. In other words, telling an overweight person at the conscious level to repeat “I am my ideal weight” will usually elicit a huge spluttering resistance, such as “Anybody can look at me and tell that I am not”. For such a person to use an affirmation at the conscious level, an affirmation worded like “Can I become my ideal weight” will get much less resistance, other variations would be “I am becoming my ideal weight”, or “I will become my ideal weight” or “it is possible I am becoming my ideal weight”.

    However, for fastest results, relaxing the person deeply, which temporarily turns off their resistant thoughts, and then using the “I am” form, such as “I am my ideal weight” and then filling their mind with the idea of fitting in their slimmer clothes and looking and feeling wonderful will get the speediest results. A hypnotist doing this can get more results in one session than the person by themselves could achieve in a month using the weaker forms of affirmation like the “I will” or “I am becoming” form.

    The reason is in the story “I think I can”. When the resistance is turned off, the person can “catch a whiff of success”, and then they come out of the hypnotic trance believing in themselves and saying “When I came in your office, I didn't think I could do it, but now I think I can” and then they are able to go out and do it and they get marvelous results.

    For those of you not familiar with hypnosis, it's been approved by the AMA since 1958, and hundreds of well-designed studies have been performed in the medical field showing great efficacy for a number of useful results. Because of this, it is considered an evidence-based procedure. Your physician has a desk reference with a Current Procedural Terminology code CPT 90880 for Medical Hypnotherapy that s/he can prescribe for things like pain and fear.

    Historically, the physicians William Kroger and Milton Erickson pioneered careful research on its use in medical conditions, and there are many well-designed studies out there performed by medical professionals showing its efficacy in many situations.

    As an example, a couple of weeks ago, one of my students was able to induce hypnotic anesthesia for an outpatient procedure in a women's clinic where chemical anesthesia was contraindicated, and she used the “I am” form of suggestion – “You are feeling comfortable and relaxed, you are conscious only of ease and comfort”. This would have not worked in the wideawake state, but in the deeply relaxed state of hypnosis, which she was able to induce in about 3 minutes, it worked so well, the woman was so relaxed she was not even aware the procedure was being performed.

  • susanvelasquez.com

    Interesting spin on goal setting rather than affirmations. Will I? I Will.. Can I? I can.. still refer to future outcomes. Affirmations lead with the statement I am… and require an energetic shift from future wondering to present claiming ownership of aspects of ourselves that we don't totally believe. It evokes a 'leap of faith' in that it combines Can I? and I will… and starts the process of birthing ownership ~ I AM… Most of us avoid the true use of affirmations exactly because it puts us firmly into the waters of the unknown. Affirmations can be the portal through which transformation rather than linear changes can be activated.

  • http://skywriter.wordpress.com Donna Cunningham

    I love this–though I'm metaphysically inclined, I've often been suspicious about the effectiveness of affirmations. I think they give people the illusion that they're doing something when really they're just sitting around thinking rather than doing.

    this is a terrific blog! I'm glad someone sent me here. Donna Cunningham

  • question authority

    See “Afformations”. Noah St. John (google it). Or, one of his titles, The Great Little Book of Afformations (amazon). This questioning approach is less known than conventional affirmation ideas, but it isn't exactly new.

  • Lindacaswell06

    Interesting discussion. My take is that the researcher has a lot more testing to do. I'm not agreeing or disagreeing, I think it opens up more options to play with.

    For me, the question “How can I…?” rather than “Will I…?” takes the issue from an external resource to an internal resource–and is more empowering. I've worked with affirmations for many years, some happened, some didn't.

    When I started affirming qualities and general successes, rather than amounts of money, by when, and other specifics, they worked more consistently. Setting aside an hour in a quiet setting with the intention of writing “I am…” statements is a powerful process. Writing quickly without editing and judging the statement elicits profound possibilities.

    For example, saying “I am financially free” instead of “I make $1 million by 12/31/10″ opens the door to more possibilities.

    I believe that these statements come from a place within that knows it is already true. And a place that knows “How.”

    Affirmations, I Am statements or I Will statements boil down to practice. Persistent, consistent practice. Repeated in a relaxed manner, allowing the ideas to seed and take root in the subconscious increases the possibility of achieving what is being affirmed. Inconsistent practice produces inconsistent results. I know that from personal experience.

    Thanks for all the comments.

  • Lgunfried

    I wonder if the results have something to do with your credibility within your own mind. If I say “I will”, it doesn't mean I believe me. If I say, “Will I” I don't have to prove my sincerity to believe in the possibilities. “I will” requires that no doubt in my ability exists, otherwise, I can say “I will” till the cows come home, but my own personal perception negates the self talk. No such issue exists with “Will I”. This could explain why I've always thought “I will” and “I am” statements were silly (guess that's why they don't work for me.)

  • Guest

    Personal experience … asking inwardly “How can I relax the muscles in my neck?”, and then mentally letting go of it, is more effective than inwardly instructing “Relax the muscles in my neck.”

  • Ana Cuji

    This makes perfect sense to me. I have 3 teenagers and 1 eleven year old. If I ask “will you please do such and such?” I have more success than if I say, “please do such and such”. And I´ve used the word please both times. I think there is that little bit of rebelious nature in most of us.

  • question authority

    “Every sentence I utter must be understood not as an affirmation, but as a question.” ~ Niels Bohr, Nobel Prize winning physicist
    That quote is the lead in to chapter one of St. John's 'Great Little Book of Affirmations”…..his premise, in a nutshell, is that “if human thought is really the process of asking and searching for answers to questions, then why are we going around making STATEMENTS we don't believe?”

  • RickyJoy

    Yes, Joy
    I just recorded subliminal affirmations on a custom meditation CD, formatting them as a series of “How can I…” questions. This engages the subconscious to work on “my” behalf. I am ostensibly multitasking toward my goals without a lot of additional conscious effort, streamlining my actions intuitively in a helpful direction.

  • question authority

    how exactly is that done, RickyJoy?

  • Donna Sewell

    Its important to make it clear to you (including all the details as needed, but then in Brain Gym (R) we teach people to re-word their goals in a way that a five-year-old would understand. When we turn 8 or so, our left hemisphere begins to take over our resources, and that ever-so-rational part of us can block the intent of our heart with all its analytical reasoning. I agree with your therapist. Re-word it and simplify.

  • Kay Porter

    I totally agree with Morris Berg and Michael Piper. This study definitely does not use affirmations correctly. They are always in the present tense and usually begin with “I.”
    What a waste of energy, time and money studying non-affirmations!
    Kay Porter, Ph.D
    Author, THE MENTAL ATHLETE

  • Donna Sewell

    I love it! As a statement, I do prefer “I can___” and “I am ___ing” over “I will___” but when turned into a question, “Will I___? is great. It reminds me of The Sedona Method where they ask three questions “Could I? Would I? and When?” It also reminds me of a well-known scripture saying: “Ask, and ye shall receive.” Of course the corollory of that is, if we don't ask we probably won't receive.
    I wonder what would show up if the pitch of voice were to go up at the end of saying “I will_____?” If the brain were to receive it as a question under those conditions, and do just as well, that could imply that its more the tonality than the words or their order; the creative genius, astrocytes and heart more than the rational, neurological part of the brain that has the power to change the whole.
    Actually, it seems like a lot of this is about getting the rational, analytical side to give it over to the possible and desireable.
    If anyone out there is interested, I have yet another idea. Try marching in place, touching your opposite knees with your hands as you go, look all around (circles, near and far, right and left, high and low) while you repeat your affirmation. It just may be another way to get through to the “reset button”. I haven't tried it with a question yet, but I most certainly will. Thanks a ton for a great little bit of information! It is truly going to blow away the chaff.

  • Norma

    Very interesting info – thanks!

  • Janet Clark

    It occurs to me that when you make a statement that does not support your current thinking – ” I will do this…” or “I can do this…” your conscious mind will negate it. Affirmations would likely be more effective if the messages by-passed the conscious mind and delivered directly to the subconscious. I could see how a question would be more effective on a conscious level.

  • RickyJoy

    I'm not clear on your question, qa-
    How is the process of making the recording done or how does the brain/mind process work ?

  • Joseph

    I think I will continue to use my affirmations the way they are because they help me
    visualize the end result how I want it? The sample used in the research was to small
    and the way they applied it is not the same application millions of others would use.
    If you set a goal for yourself you have a target to strive for if not how do you get the
    results you want. Having a positive self image and self esteem is vital to one success
    and I don't see will I, which implies doubt as more powerful that I Am! I can generate
    more focused positive energy with the I Am than the Will I any day of the week!

  • Jvonwolff

    I found this very interesting. Since affirmations don't work for me, I am going to try the question and see if it helps me complete projects or other things.

    Joan Von Wolff

  • Joseph

    If you are willing to settle for less in life you will get less! Take money, money itself is
    usually not the issue but how one thinks about it definitely is. When you set limits
    based on fear for example of course you get thew opposite of what you want. Does
    any one here understand how the law of attraction works? It is not necessary to know
    the how in order to get a solution. Whatever is in your subconscious will manifest
    anyway so just changing the phrasing has no bearing on that part. If you are scared
    to ask or state what you want it will not happen against your will so declare your
    truth!

  • Joseph

    Because there will be resistance is not a reason to not use them! A goal is like a map, in order to get there, one must know where he is going! You overcome inner resistance by identifying it, then releasing it, but not by avoiding it! I use my vision board, affirmations, hypnosis and subliminals daily and will continue to do so. The only reason people do not declare what it is they want is because of fear! Amazing, one study taken out of context and suddenly all affirmations are ineffective and a waste of time. When affirmations are done properly they are very effective just like other self improvement techniques! There is no one size fits all but they are an effective tool to use, one of many! That is why I use them all and will continue to
    add more tools, not less, to my self improvement arsenal!

  • Joseph

    When something works for you continue to use it but always be open to add more tools to your self improvement toolbox as YOU see fit!

  • Joseph

    Bypassing the conscious mind, the gatekeeper, is very critical to the acceptance of
    a new belief. The good news is that using various techniques, it can be done and done
    effectively!

  • Joseph

    They don't work like anything if you don't accept them. Changing the phrasing does not
    remove any internal blocks that you might have. Identifying the blocks/conflicts and
    releasing them is the way to move forward! If the self limiting belief is not removed it
    will show up at a later time, anyway! Avoidance does not solve the problem of internal
    self limiting beliefs that hold you back!

  • 2cathron

    SPOT ON ! this is what I was thinking as I was reading above. Saying “I Will” was always hollow and somewhat of an easy way out for me, with the action usually not being achieved. But asking “Will I?” puts the strikes a nerve, puts it right back on ME – No hiding, Will I, WOW, now I have to be honest and step up if I want the answer to be YES. I gues different things work for different people. Thanks so much for this tip.

  • Mark Bottinick

    Michael has issues. Maybe he can use his perfectly phrased affirmations to develop a less caustic and judging personality. Let me sum up his comment: “Negativity, negativity, negativity, I wish you a great day.” Give psychotherapy a second thought, Michael. A group will really set you straight.

  • Joseph

    Don't ever under estimate the power of thought! Actions follow thought as the brain is the CPU of the body! If something works for you, it is not an illusion! There is no one size fits all and this limited study does not conclusively state that ALL AFFIRMATIONS are a waste of time or anything even remotely close to that! I judge by my own results and what actually work for me and discard the rest. If something works effectively for you, you mean to say that you would disregard it based on the latest fad study? How foolish as you know many studies come to different conclusions on the same topic. What must people always make it a all or none proposition when the spectrum is much broader!

  • Mark Bottinick

    Practitioners of energy psychology use muscle testing and other diagnostic techniques to find “psychological reversals” – our jargon for barriers to healing. They apply to affirmations as well. Some of these reversals are “it's safe to (accomplish the affirmation),” “I deserve to (…affirmation)” and “I'll be deprived if I (… affirmation).” If such a barrier exists, people stay stuck. For example, I treated an obese woman who had been raped. We discovered that unconsciously, she felt the extra weight kept her safe from further assaults after she tested positive to the statement, “It's not safe to lose weight.” If someone unconsciously believes they don't deserve to accomplish something, I don't think it will matter how the affirmation is phrased – they'll find a way to fail. Fortunately, energy psychology has techniques for quickly discovering these areas of resistance and for quickly removing them.

  • 2cathron

    P.S. excuse the poor typing, its early here is Aus. :) ALSO: asking the question creates a challenge, making a statement is like a done deal, no more required of me. eg: I am good enough…. great, no work required here. Will I be good enough….. requires some self examination and possible improvement.

  • question authority

    I meant how could I do what you did? Software, etc to record custom subliminal messages? What tools do you use/ recommend?

  • http://www.efthomestudy.com Morris Berg

    Great post! I'd like to encourage anyone interested in affirmations to look into energy psychology. One of its forms is EFT (Emotional Freedom Techniques) which can easily be learnt for self-help and self-development. Just Google it and you'll get lots of sites and many free manuals, podcasts, etc. Search for EFT on YouTube and you'll find lots of demos.

  • question authority

    the cpu metaphor maybe not so useful anymore…have been reading about Somatic Experiencing (and NICABM also recently had a teleseminar series…), about how trauma takes up residence in the body. Robert Scaer has the best books on the subject, and one of the things he said that has me commenting on the cpu idea is that the vagal nerve is 90% (if I remember correctly) afferent, meaning most of the info transmission goes from body to brain, making a lot of the psych/emotion stuff that is emphasized symptom level effort…..

  • Peg Cain

    Perfectly, simply put! THAT is EXACTLY how I~ felt~ inside, when I changed MY “I will!” to will I?” The power of the question = self awareness and more confidence.

  • Dr. J

    First, I agree with Morris Berg regarding the proper construction of affirmations, so the study was flawed, with respect to both that and the type of question to ask. Tony Robbins has been promoting the question-asking technique for decades and suggests that we ask “good” questions. So “Will I lose weight?” would be a bad question, whereas a good (and quintessentially Tony Robbins-style) question might be, “How can I lose weight, increase my energy AND have fun in the process?” This approach seems to generate new perspectives and solutions effectively.

  • Sandino

    I think all this law of attraction is a load of crap. I have done negative and gained positive. I have also been extremely positive and my whole life messed up. It is all hype some idiot made up to make money from people and then they have the nerve to say that they made millions, of course they did selling this rubbish but they claim they want to help us, yeah right more like there wallets. Far as i am concerned all this rubbish promotes suicide because it doesn't work.

  • Sandino

    Oh yeah and notice how there is always something new everyday. Or the reason it doesn't work is to do this or this is an new techniques. Bull, it is to gain you more money. You conveniently forgot to mention something, sure thing. How can criminals who are negative have more then someone who has the so called love in there hearts to gain. It is rubbish all of it. I am sure a fetal child dreamed up its own life to be born in hunger or war. Oh yes, i am sure we all dream up our own life. More like the blood suckers of this world try to fool us.

  • Ellen Nicholas

    Makes perfect sense. The first way implies that you will succeed in doing the task. The second is a command which people react to negatively.

  • Ellen Nicholas

    You should (we all should) use the technique that works for them. Possibly your technique of affirmation wouldn't work for someone with lower self-esteem. If someone who lacks self esteem says “I am loving my fabulous Self” or some such thing, it may not work because deep down, he doesn't believe he IS.

  • Ellen nicholas

    I haven't heard that before, the “Gatekeeper”. Is that from a specific kind of therapy?

  • Ellennicholas

    It seems the essential thing is to use the word “How” in the beginning of the question. So it's “How will I accomplish this project quickly and easily? NOT “Will I accomplish, “etc.

  • Sandino

    I would like to know if there is something new all the time, then why did it work without all the new for the so called experts. Everyone thinks they are an expert. Statistic and rubbish that is false or misleading. It is no more then selling. That is aall it is. You sell yourself to an employer and depending on the job is how much you earn. How much you earn determines how or where you spend it, ie. making more money from it. How much money can determine being sad or happy, being sad or happy determines whether you meet your loved ones. Believe me, if you attract a great girl while you have money, i am sure she will leave if you lose that money. Gee i was going to set up a website and sell this rubbish too because everyone is brainwashed. I would then become rich. Oh but then conveniently i left something out so you had better buy the new ebook. I listen to alpha hypnosis but all it does is send me to sleep, sleep i have needed because of all the crap going on in my life. Tell me why would someone with so much love have his children taken away or his future wife, but the people who do these selfish things be rewarded with my children? Get the picture, it is rubbish, she doing nasty things by keeping my children from me with no reasoning except selfishness and none of you know me so don't say did i do something to them blah blah! that would be a typical response from people who think they know everything. Then i can sit there everyday pining for my girls, litterally in tears, looking at there photo, telling them i love them and we will always be together only to never see them. Things just happen, there is no attraction to it at all because if there was then she would have lost them long ago with her antics. Apparently this world is about love but i beg to differ because of the llove i know i had for a whole heap of people, that wrote me off, probably because i was so loving that they took advantage of me. Being too positive and giving too much love lets the evil take advantage. Most business people get there money because they are ruthless, such as the people who claim there is something new every single day to the law of attraction. More like something new to gain them more money, something new for them to sell to keep there business going. What is it going to be tomorrrow. I mean, we are told to ask, we will receive but we must let go. This is what you do and it never arrives. Then you get angry with the whole world, then something arrives. Yep i am sure positiveness is the answer. What a joke. I am sure love has everything to do with it NOT!

  • tori

    The Lefkoe Technique deals with these subconscious beliefs, often effectively. They are things like “Life is difficult” and “I'm not good enough.” (recreateyourlife.com/free)

  • tori

    If I say “How will I solve this problem?” my mind then wants to answer. Its creativity rises to the occasion. If I say “I am solving this problem” I'm then imagining how it would feel to solve it; however, that doesn't help me in a concrete way.

  • Wizron

    Interesting article, but you left out the '3rd dimension'. Our subconscious mind hears every bit of self-talk that we indulge in. And being a sort of 'dumb waiter' (and yet a very powerful one), it starts working on our (repeated) self-talk in order to make it a reality for us. But our conscious mind works on logic, and our subconscious mind works on FEELINGS, so it is quite possible that our subconscious FEELS better about “Will I be able to” rather than “I am able to”, because the second option may create stress, which is a FEELING. The subconscious therefore manifests the “Will I be able to” option sooner because it FEELS better about the openness of it.

    And yet, this whole study bypasses the most effective way of reaching the subconscious mind. Contrary to the logical conscious mind, the subconscious mind DOESN'T RECOGNISE FUTURE OR PAST – it only recognises NOW (the '3rd dimension'). So, whether we phrase the question as “Will I be able to”, or “I am able to”, it will be much more effective if we phrase it in the NOW – the only 'time' the subconscious mind understands.

  • Sandino

    I used a microphone, stereo
    a mixing program that lets you record voice, add music or hypnosis.
    headphone, preferably wireless so when listening, if you fall asleep then the cord won't choke you
    I record 3 lots of affirmations, one for left ear, one for right ear and one for stereo.
    All mixed with mixing program.
    Added background music, ie DAvid a stewart, lily was ere. Has to be background, done with mixer program.
    Then added background hypnosis.
    Press mix button and your done. record it to cd if you wish. i just play it through WMP and goto bed with wireless headphones.

  • Sandino

    I have an idea. I am going to sell this because you hve missed out an important key factor here LOL! How about we ask the question and then answer the question. For instance :- Will i have $5000. Yes i will have $5000. Will i find love, yes i will find love. This then adds both equations to the subconscious in the end it becomes positive. I have had subliminal messages flash on my computer for more then 2 years now. Do they work, well i say they haven't worked but i never thought this way until recently so it is still all a load of crap if you ask me

  • reflectiveFrank

    It is interesting reading the different view points. It strikes me that from my own experience there is much room for success if these conditions are met. Faith and Love. I use love cautiously here as I suspect it has many interpretaions. to clarify I will say that when one feels loved one feels cared for thus opening up a pathway to feeling deserving of receiving. This brings up faith. Jesus often uses this term surrounding his miracles and even goes so far as to say even more will be done with just a bit of faith. I'm not here to get into religion but focusing on his words and noticing effects/results. Take a look at History since and some of the things we enjoy because of these two factors.
    examples:
    Modern Hospitols – St. John of God thrwn in Jail for a breakdown stsrts ministering to others like him not understood and brings healing and the first semblance of a modern hospitol system.
    survivors of Auswich -Dr. Fromm (sp?) shares his experiences
    Life of Mahatma Ghandi an the power of peaceful resistance

    I can go on but these are I hope varied enough (Christian, Jew and Hindu) to make the point.

    Perhaps a third condition is also necessary as it is linked to faith and love. That is hope but not necessarily worldly hope which generally results in disappointment after one recieves in that worldly hope lacks thankfulness and connection to something greater than self. In a way it negates the nature of real love.

  • Gay Reid

    This was very interesting. I've always had the notion that the affirmation was the way to go, but now I think I'll be questionning myself instead. Thanks for this report.

  • Darthdruid

    an affirmation is”I am able to” NOT “I will …”
    it must contain zero negatives or it is not a positive affirmation
    also it must be worded as though you already posses the quality
    NOT that you will acquire it in the future but that it is already in you

  • Carolynmusic726

    I think the questions worked because they lead one to consider how they will complete the task- think it through better. ” I will” complete it tends to make one just plow through. One way to test this may be to use different parts of the brain. Practiced things that are automatic may do better with I will. Things like puzzles which you have to move to the front may do better with “Can I”. If anybody does this I want in.

  • Carolynmusic726

    Sorry Mark I saw your post after I wrote mine; we had the same idea…

  • Anam Cara

    The self talk paradigm I adhere to says, “I am enjoying this challenge and I am doing very well on it.” “I am” places the person in the “now” rather than in the future as “I will.”

  • McDLT

    I agree with many of the people posting here. When I want to think creatively, I write down a question: “How will I…?”

    When I want to motivate myself to do what I've already decided to do, I will use present tense affirmations and, more effectively, emotion-connected visualizations.

    I don't think this study proved much either. A good starting point for discussion but not really “evidence”.

  • Vinay Kumar

    I guess the affirmation ” I will” sort of makes the brain complacent and lazy which results in low performance levels . What's more the pressure question “Will I” keeps one on their toes and makes them perform with an adrenalin rush!

  • Gilgray

    Try asking “How will I . . . or How CAN I . . .

  • Stormlaughter

    That sounds like such a good idea I'm going to use it myself and see what happens.

    So, how will I make this affirmation thing work for me? ;)

  • Jmoswald

    This reminds me of the Sedonna method where you ask yourself 3 questions about a repettive negative thought – 1. can I let this go? 2. do I want to let this go? and 3. when will I let this go? After you practive this awhile you can shorten this to Can I?, Want to? and When? The response to the first question is often” No”- but the response to the second question is often “Yes “-and then when you get to the question of when you are thinking – I want to let go of it Now!! It is a very effective technique!! So I think you have stumbled on a very amazing truth about the power of self motivation through questions!

  • Jmoswald

    I like your idea of using different methods for different situations. Where can I learn more about emotion-connected visualizations?

  • Alemenia

    Hi tori: I would like to share another angle for solving problems. Seeing them as opportunities. Such as changing your thinking about money and debt. I just had a wonderful experience when i chose to see debt differently. If i am not behind i am not in debt. If i am paying my morgage, car note, etc,etc it sure made me feel different about my understanding of debt. Most of our problems can be solved by others (I call them experts) If i have a problem i find someone who has experience in that area and have them tell me what to do. I pay them a fee and add it to my taxes as a business expence. I have a team of people to do the things i do not want to do or have no real intrest in and they use me as a reference for future clients its the old you scratch my back i will scratch yours.

  • Alemenia McLean

    For me affirmations are great but the true secret is to take action along with the affirmations because without action you can affirm all you like and not much will happen. I ask the universe lost of questions and i then pay attention around me for the answers to thoes questions. example on the side of a moving truck, headline in the news paper. anything could hold the answer to your question. You also have to take action you can't just ask and sit there with your eyes closed. The universe loves action and the faster the better. Loveya Menia

  • Brlynn132

    I think that the reason most people miss opportunities is that it comes dressed in overalls and looks like work. I use to run from opportunites till i told fear go get back!

  • Anthony

    I have never been a fan of affirmations. There are studies that clearly prove they do not work for most people. And the people they do work for are positive to begin with and have high confidence and self-esteem. So they really don't need them. When I do my own work and work with clients, I use questions such as, “How can I…?” I'm going to try “will I?” and see how that works. Very useful post. Thanks!

    Anthony

  • Judy

    A good affirmation is written in first person, PRESENT Tense, not future using “will.” Using “will” keeps the accomplishment of the desired results in the future. In this case, the participants needed to write, “I solve the anagram.” The Little Engine that Could should say “I know I can.” In the scenario given, stating a question with “Will” is indeed a challenge to accomplish the task which the brain will take on. The subconscious only works in the present, thus does not know how to use the word “will” in the future. It can only do it NOW.

  • question authority

    AFFORMATIONS (as opposed to affirmations) meet these liturgical requirements. It just uses questions instead of statements. instead of “I am rich”, “Why am I so rich?”, etc……

  • oldbiker1

    Thank you for this suggestion – I think, for me, this may work better than the other methods.

  • Mikeintus

    Richard Bartlett frames the question a different, and to my mind better way: “if I knew what to do, what would I do? See Matrix Energetics for an explanation of how that works.
    Mike in Tucson

  • Tstew30749

    Very interesting. I think I would respond better to the question so it doesn't feel impossible. Thanks for sharing.

  • Elsao

    I really like this because, as you said, the challenge is more powerful than the command, even from ourselves. I like the question, “how will I___?

  • MarkP

    Neuro-Linguistic Programming (NLP) can also help with finding “hidden” barriers.

  • Stacy

    Wow. Those sound like fighting words. I'm not a psychologist, but I have to say that your response reeks of it's own prejudices. Scientific inquiry always leaves room for improvement, and this forum has certainly offered up some constructive suggestions.

  • stacy

    How do we know that the subconscious only works in the present?

  • Ingrid!

    Has anyone heard of Noah St John?…he has a book called 'The Great Little Book of Afformations” (and yes, I typed Afformation – Noah says FORM your statement into a question). It is an easy read book that leads with these sames principles of asking a question versus using a statement. He goes into very simple reasons why this is more efficient in receiving ANYTHING you desire in life. It really works for me… I have questions posted all over my bedroom and here at work on sticky notes. I have known about asking questions for about 2 years now. Nice to see this article.

  • Black Swan

    While I appreciate this experiment, I think it is somewhat flawed. If you look at athletic visualization and th epower thereof, the athelte see themselves performing the task, event, etc. and they see themselves doing it correctly and easily. There is no question or doubt in their mind. Therefore, it is better to see yourself doing it rather than asking if you can. The mind acts on the power of the most dominant thought. For example, a golfer sees the ball going in the hole and making the putt. There is no “Will I”, there is I will or I am”. What the mind can conceive you can achieve!

  • question authority

    true, about visualization. it made all the difference during my motocross days. but not everyone can visualize. and even those who once could don't necessarily retain that ability (happened to me – my mind's eye wears a patch now). but afformations have been mentioned in this blog. and the distinction betwen “will I?” and “why am I? is, I think, significant…….

  • Kerry aitken

    brilliant new info and great for the human spirit

    Kerry Aitken, Counsellor, Auckland, NZ

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  • Eric Woll

    I amazed by how quickly people are taking the results of this study as “proof” of something. I'm also glad that they don't come to conclusions this quickly when they want to bring a new drug to the market.

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  • Dlporter198

    In my opinion the affirmations “How will I solve this puzzle” vs. “I will solve this puzzle” are not really that different as the first statement contains within it the directive “I solve this puzzle”, which is pretty much the same thing as the latter affirmation.

  • question authority

    it contains “proof” in the same way that the conventional affirmations assertions do…
    as for the new drugs to market process, you'd be surprised…..

  • question authority

    contains within it? there are rules of grammar, sentences have structure – they are not anagrams to be pruned and reconfigured…a question is a question – not a statement or directive……the Socratic method of teaching/learning is not the same as the directives favored by Paris island drill sergeants…..

  • http://www.exploringthemind.com Michael Lovitch

    very good point. I think more research needs to be done

  • Peter Arike

    I agree totally with Morris Berg who wrote the first comment. That test didn't prove at all that questions are more effective than affirmations. A powerful affirmation would have been “I have solved these problems easily and effortlessly”. The people who do not believe in the power of affirmations has not learned how to use them correctly.

  • Caradirisi

    I love it.I knew the old way was wrong.Questions lead to growth not a know it all attitude.Makes sense.

  • http://www.mycadenza.com Manon Mitchell

    Charlie I agree with you wholeheartedly!
    It is unfortunate that here in Canada, medical hypnosis (or what we call clinical hypnotherapy) is not yet approved.

  • Dinashira

    It validates the excellent work of Noah St.John (The Great Little Book of Afformations)

  • Awake_2010

    Great post! I'd like to encourage anyone interested in affirmations to look into energy psychology

  • Carol Ann B. White

    This is a great immediate application to one’s own life experience. It seems it is like the Sedona Method questioning:
    Could you? Would you? When?
    This could be changed to:
    Could I? Would I? When? for just about anything from cheetoes to time management
    Carol Ann B.

  • http://www.facebook.com/clinton.clay Clinton Clay

    This affirms beliefs I acquired early in my study of NLP. It validates Milton Erickson’s presuppositional phrasing, such as How soon will you go into trance? Will you go into a light trance or a deep trance? hat new learnings will you have in trance today? etc.

    I hope that a follow up esearch will use other questioning approaches in addition to the Will ? How soon will I..? When will I..?, etc

    How much quicker and better wold our children, students, employees, etc. go if we only used the questioning technique: inviting use of curiosity and creativity, an implied belief in them and their intelligence and potential, nothing for the subconscious to reactive negatively such as an implied command, after all, the “I will” anchors and recreates the authoriartian, “YOU WILL CLEAN YOUR ROOM AND DO IT NOW!!”

  • Anonymous

    I find it interesting how some people seem so invested in defining a therapy or practice, such as ‘affirmations’ & so forth. The agenda for these people seems to revolve around going into the nitty gritty’s of exactly what these self help techniques ARE or ARE NOT. I would wonder, if these practices come under the broader term of ‘self help’, that would seem to indicate that the ‘self’ (meaning individual self) would determine the ‘help’ part. The whole thing here is to realise firstly that you KNOW NOTHING. The more you think you know for fact, the less you are open & the more possibility & learning you will inevitably block. No one knows for sure exactly how much of our brain’s potential capacity we are actually using, but safe to say we’re nowhere near the full tank, particularly if that potential is indeed ‘infinite’ ;)
    I personally don’t care WHAT an affirmation is, I do care about deepening my understanding of how I can better access my subconscious mind & provide a positive offering in exchange for deleting a negative. I’m not that interested in what this process is called, call it nothing as far as I’m concerned, called it ‘mind snorkelling’..does it matter?? I don’t think that is the productive aspect of conversation here. I’m pretty sure the intention was to provoke thought & openness regarding self talk. No one said ‘affirmations don’t work’, the subject that was put on the table was could the current model ‘perhaps’ work more effectively another way? I’m sure we can come up with a different terminology if it offends some people to liken this technique to ‘affirmations’, I think someone suggested ‘possibilations’ – lets go with that so that no one need fear that their self help method is under attack. As has been said many times in this discussion, it could simply come down to ‘different strokes for different folks’, would that be so odd, considering each of us are unique beings..? I agree with the statements made here that people need to follow their inner voice on what works for THEM, instead of relying or believing in any type of ‘self help’ technique that is set out in a dogmatic & inflexible list of do & don’ts.

    My personal perspective on the topic presented, is that to me, asking the question ‘how will I _________?’ seems a more gracious deference to your higher divine energy, than to say ‘I will do this’. To some degree I see it is trust vs ego. Perhaps it really comes down to how you perceive it all, how you prefer to be spoken to. If the ‘command statement’ doesn’t set up a rebel response within you, perhaps you perceive this type of statement as ‘powerful’, other ways the same statement could be perceived might be ‘controlling’, ‘overwhelming’, ‘unforgiving’, ‘inflexible’ & so forth. Obviously if your emotional reaction to the way the statement is presented is negative, it’s unlikely that a positive result will follow. If this is true, one must first examine one’s reaction to the ‘command statement – I will’ & compare it to their reaction to the ‘enquiring statement – How will I?’, in the end the only difference here that I see is the emotional acceptance to one form or another. ‘how will I?’, still assumes that you will, it’s not giving you an easy out of the end achievement, (affirming a positive outcome) or ‘diluting’ the content, it’s just giving you the option of deferring to a place inside you that may very well know ‘how’, better than the part you consciously have access to. To go further, by saying ‘I will’, in the conscious context of ‘I’, could even be seen as negating the unconscious influence in people who react adversely to commanding forms of speech.

    I would also like address the argument that to use the ‘how will I?’ variation is to avoid the problem of saying something you don’t really believe, (therefore rendering it useless as an affirmation because you are not MAKING yourself believe something), such as ‘I will lose weight’, as opposed to ‘how will I lose this weight?’. The way I see it is, you do still have to believe you can lose the weight, just instead of ‘ordering’ yourself to do it, possibly creating fear & anxiety in many people (& hence emotional resistance), you are believing that the weight loss problem will be resolved & are graciously asking for the guidance that leads you to that outcome – the outcome that is ALREADY THERE (present tense), but that you obviously at this point in time cannot see.

    Further on the subject of presenting this line of questioning in present tense form, as in the established method of an ‘affirmation’, experiment! – who says you can’t say ‘How is it that I am losing all this weight?’, you have your question, you have it happening now, you’ve stated it as a fact but you haven’t placed any demands upon yourself – you’re just asking how? :)

    Last points, I don’t find the ‘will I?’ proposition, (excluding the ‘how’), an attractive form of posing a question with the intent to provide specifically a positive outcome. ‘Will I?’ is way too open, way too open to ‘no I won’t’ in particular. I don’t see this as helpful at all. Even with the most ‘closed’ version, ‘I will’, you can still resist it & say ‘I won’t', with ‘How will I?’, you can say ‘I won’t', but with just ‘will I?’, there’s way too much temptation there for doubt, it has no positive energy to tip it the other way. ‘How will I?’ invokes a sense of discovery, challenge, wonder.. ‘Will I?’ is flat & presents no motivational force. The vibration of these things are important.

    I also agree that the experiment was pretty useless & flawed in more ways than many.. I am however grateful for the interaction it provoked on this subject, always a good thing :)

    I believe that in a professional setting with a well trained hypnotherapist or the like, the ‘I am’, ‘I will’ statements could be more effective/produce faster results, once the person is in a relaxed state & their blocks/resistance can be effectively bypassed. On a daily basis, when one is not in a Theta brain state, I believe however that many people may benefit more from a less ‘aggressive’ form of self talk.

    Trust in your own inner guidance, in any event you need to start there.

    ‘How do I find it so easy to relax?’ (wow I know how to do this!)

    ‘How am I letting go of all this anger?’ (impressive!)

    ‘How is it that I know I can trust myself?’ (What a great feeling)

    ‘How am I learning constantly how to live abundantly?’ (you go girl! – or boy ;)

    ‘How am I so happy & at peace?’ (yeah, awesome, how DO I do that?!)

    ‘How am I enjoying financial freedom’ (Let me count the ways… ;)

    ….it couldn’t hurt…:)

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  • Bob

    Noah St. John has coined a term for this called ‘Afformations’  if interested….

    Do you think you can check this out?  

    Ever see a dog, sniff, sniff, sniff… it is ‘questioning’  

    Ever see an animal in the wild?  It is alert, and the alert eyes, ears, nose… are all being used to question, the environment.  Questions are all powerful.  

    I am a teacher and see questions being so much more powerful teachers than mere statements.  Statements build walls, defenses, questions open the mind to possibilities.  Questions open the gate to the two most powerful human emotions fear and the loss of pleasure.  

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    I have been in some area of sales for most of my working years.   During this time I have read books on self motivation as well as discussed with others ideas about positive thinking.  As I recall these memories the central message has always been to say to myself “I can do this” or some other positve suggestion.  Your article is so simple yet so powerful!  By asking a question you in effect are not possibly lying to yourself.  When we say “I will” a person might subconsiously think they are lying to themself thus creating stress which could make your objective that much more difficult thus draining your energy.  I think your suggestion of challenging yourself eliminates this possible negitive part of the equation.    Chuck D

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